Birth Plan
Monday evening I was slammed with a nasty cold. I must have battled 3 or 4 of these already but it feels so much worse this time because of the size of my uterus. It's up in my rib cage so every time I cough or have a sneezing fit, I think I am going to crack a rib. I was supposed to do some meetings from 10:30 to 2:30 today and I just couldn't pull it together. In the last two nights I have only slept 1 hour at a time and eventually leave the bedroom for the glider or the couch.
Needless to say, I am behind on my spring break plans and blog updates. Here's a quick one: the birth plan. We just had our third trimester appointment with our doula last night and reviewed it with her. Feedback is welcomed. We are missing one piece regarding the placenta. I am seeking a resource for placenta dehydration to use as pills for a speed recovery. If I find an affordable resource I will include it in the plan.
Birth Plan for Vanessa and Pablo Garza
EDD: April 19, 2008
Our Birth Wishes...
Pablo and I are very excited about the birth of our first child. We have
developed this wish list so that all involved will know how they can best help
us. We do realize that circumstances may arise and that changes may occur.
During Labor
Freedom to use whatever position I find comfortable: standing, walking,
squatting, birthball, etc.
Perform intermittent fetal monitoring.
I would like to use the shower as a comfort measure.
Listen to music and use dim lighting for relaxation.
Delay the use of an IV and would prefer a Saline Lock.
I am aware that pain medication is available to me and I will let you know if I
want it...please do not ask.
During Birth
To push in a variety of positions: semi-reclined, side-lying, squatting, hands
and knees, etc.
To avoid an episiotomy and would prefer warm compresses, perineal support,
peri- massage oil, and position of choice to achieve this.
Prefer to push with the urge and not with counting
After Birth
Do not suction the nose and mouth unless meconium is present
I would like immediate skin-to-skin contact for the bonding
and attempt self-latch breastfeeding.
Wait to cut the umbilical cord when it has stopped pulsating.
Have the father cut the umbilical cord.
Do not wipe the hands of the baby
Perform the newborn exam on my thigh.
We would like to delay any newborn procedures for the first hour.
We will delay the Hep B vaccine and have discussed this with our pediatrician.
I will breastfeed so please no bottles, nipples, pacifiers, etc.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this and for making this
day a respectable one. We are eternally grateful for all your help, support and
encouragement.
Signed __________________________ (mom) ____________________________ (dad)
___________________________ (doula) _____________________________ (CNM)
Comments
For example, once my guy's head and shoulders were out, I was allowed to pull him out the rest of the way and directly onto my chest. But then he wasn't breathing, so I wasn't able to try to nurse right away. He was taken from me (but not from the room), the NICU nurses rushed in, and everyone was hovering over him. His first APGAR score was only 3, but his second was 8. We had trouble getting the nursing relationship started for the first day or two (he wouldn't even try to latch on). I would have loved to have nursed him right away, because that's supposed to be good for establishing the relationship. But when your baby isn't breathing, nursing comes second! I'm not going to beat myself up, of course. My guy was healthy and didn't even have to spend time in the NICU.